Family life with meaning
There are many theories about love and family life. You can even come across the opinion of a psychologist who believes that love goes through 5 stages of development, the last of which is the death of the feeling itself. After which, two people who were once in love have nothing to do together. He compares this stage of love to a "dead horse" and believes that no love has a chance to survive or last a little longer. She will inevitably die without transforming into anything else. But this is absurd! No one says that love is an eternal feeling and it never ends. Of course, if we are talking about the case when there is no true love and people are deceived into deciding on a family life, then this is a complete failure. After all, in order to pass the test, at least, by everyday troubles, you really need a huge true Love. Yes! It is Love with a capital letter! Because only this tender feeling covers all the shortcomings of a life partner. Everyday life, in general, is very sobering, eyes open to many things and spouses begin to see things in each other that they had never noticed before. And then there are financial problems, some problems at work, chronic fatigue, constant lack of sleep due to a crying baby, etc. And all this is rolling down the mountain, growing like a snowball. In the end, unable to withstand the burden of such problems and unsupported by true love, the marriage begins to crumble with a bang.
If we talk about those who take marriage seriously and, having decided to get married, set themselves a specific task: no matter what, to pass all the trials, all the hardships and meet a happy old age together, then they will succeed! Because from the very beginning they set the GOAL of family life. For them, marriage is a very important step, and before they take it, they weigh the pros and cons. And only then, having found themselves ready to create and build a family, young (or not so young) people decide to marry. And from the very first day, they try and learn to be a support for each other; they learn to understand at a glance; they anticipate desires. After many years of living together, such spouses feel each other at a distance, and if something happens, they will feel it first!
This is the PURPOSE of family life – to study the person with whom you have lived all your life and become the closest person to whom you can entrust your innermost secrets. So it turns out that the motto of matrimony is: "Not TO TAKE, but TO GIVE!". If both husband and wife act according to this principle, then there will be complete harmony in the relationship. Try
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